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Saturday, June 29, 2013


It’s been long overdue but the time has come. The universe has been patiently waiting in anticipation for YOU to break out, speak your truth and become who you were born to be. Yes YOU are the coming attraction.

Let your mind wander with the fearlessness and imagination of a child. Where would it take you? When you were young you likely grew up believing that anything was possible if you just put your heart and soul behind it. What happened? Well along the way there were setbacks and disappointments that stopped you from moving forward and you’ve kept the belief that you couldn’t move on.

I’m here to remind you that the past is over and there is nothing you can do about it but accept it and learn from it. Remember, every successful person has failed and likely many times over. That is why they’re successful. They view the failure as an opportunity for growth and then move on. The belief that they can still accomplish what they still want to do is still there but the “How” has been reworked.

So what is holding you back? Is it fear of failure, fear of success, fear you won’t be accepted? Those are usually the top ones. But you have to ask yourself, is anyone of those fears more than the emotional let-down you’d give yourself by not acting on your desire?  

Thursday, June 27, 2013

Uncomfortable - GOOD!

When things for you start to get uncomfortable, that's a good sign that you're growing. Yes, it may not seem all that fun at the moment, but in the end you will come away with increased knowledge and experience. Think back to when you were learning a new skill while you were growing up. There are so many to choose from because you were learning ALL THE TIME. Everything was new. Learning how to walk, riding a bike, baking a cake, learning a new subject, driving a car, dating for the first time, your first kiss, and your first job were all new experiences that you overcame and now you have embodied them. Do you really have to think about how to kiss anymore? All of those things you overcame and more importantly you grew. Therefore, the next time you are feeling uncomfortable with a new challenge that you are faced with, recognize it for what it is a chance to grow. It's all a matter of your perception that can make all the difference.

Tuesday, June 25, 2013

What’s the Intent?

Wouldn’t it be great if you knew the true intent of the people and businesses around you? You certainly would be more comfortable with the full knowledge with that information beforehand. You’d be able to make better decisions for yourself and save yourself a lot of grief. And if you did it anyway you would have no one else to blame but yourself. That last one is a hard one to swallow but it’s the truth. 

Businesses are fairly easy to read.  You already know they are there to make a profit and hopefully create a returning clientele.  Deception occurs if you find out they knew they were selling you a poor bill of goods.  For them it’s a business transaction but for you it might be an emotional one. The great thing about the free market economic system is you can take your business elsewhere.

However let’s say you find out that your girlfriend or boyfriend is seeing others on the side. Worse yet you find out he had no intention on being in an exclusive relationship.  You’d be understandably heartbroken and that’s not easy to forgive.

Now let’s say your neighbor, with good intention, tends to your lawn while you’re out of town. Unfortunately he fertilizes your lawn with grass killer instead of fertilizer. Your grass is dead. He feels bad about it and is willing to make amends. In this case the neighbor had good intention but it didn’t work out the way he had planned. The lawn is fixable. It’s forgivable.

If you knew the true intention of the people you came in contact with, life would be so much easier to maneuver through. Which brings me to my next point, “Why don’t people just let you know their true intention?”

FEAR - They’re afraid you won’t go out with them. They’re afraid you won’t like them. They’re afraid you’ll quit your job. They’re afraid you won’t help them out. They’re afraid to be alone. They’re afraid you won’t love them anymore. It can go on and on. It’s based on insecurity. They’re looking for you to fill the void they have and it’s just not possible. Only they can fill that.

What do you do? Not a whole lot. You can convey your true intention and then live up to it because you can only control how you react to what’s happening around you. The rest is up to the other person.