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Thursday, February 24, 2011

Money is the Route to Freedom

It gives us freedom to do what we want. It takes away fear. It’s what will give you all the tangible things you desire.

Desiring money tends to get a bad rap but that typically comes from the viewpoint of how you were raised and what influenced you when you were growing up. You may have been brought up to believe that money is the route of all evil or that money doesn’t grow on trees. The fact is money is energy and it doesn’t care what you do with it. It isn’t money that gives money a bad rap but the entity that uses it. It makes you more of what you already are. Therefore, the guy who is greedy by nature will become greedier if he has more money. Likewise the person who has always been a compassionate person will find more ways to show their compassion. The bad rap emerged because history is filled with people, companies, and government that have used it for power or control and nobody likes that. It also can be viewed as a source of security. However, all these viewpoints come from a place of fear whereas when it comes from a place of freedom it’s coming from a love based emotion.

The word freedom means not to have an attachment to something; free to come and go with no limitations or restrictions. Therefore, if you’re holding yourself back from being all that you can be because you think it will change you, ask yourself if you like yourself just the way you are, more money will make you more of what you already are. What great things could you do and be if you had more money? What could you do to help out people you care about if you had more money like buying a new house for your Mom or sending your parents on a European vacation? You would have more choices, more fun.

If you haven’t noticed, most celebrities, professional athletes and business owners have a favorite cause or charity that they are involved in. They are grateful for what they have and want to share what they can with others. Money for them has been a route to freedom, freedom to do and be what they choose. Now, wouldn’t you like to be on the route to freedom?

Tuesday, February 22, 2011

68 Seconds to an Awesome Life

Do you have 68 seconds to spare? Sure you do. That’s all it takes to start creating the life you want. Sound too easy to be true doesn’t it? It must be harder than that. Isn’t that what you’ve been taught? If you want something you have to work hard to get it. But what if it was easier than that? Wouldn’t you want to know what it is?

If you listen or follow life coaches and mind set gurus out there one of the primary goals that need to be achieved before you can get anywhere is to become REALLY clear on what you want. In other words, you need to get the Law of Attraction to work for you. The universe doesn’t know what to send you if you keep sending mixed signals like changing your mind or wanting something but deep down believing it’s not possible. You do it all the time. I do it too. But you can train yourself to change your mindset into believing it can come true. I’ll tell you how.

First off, your mind can’t tell the real from the imaginary. Think of all the time you’ve been emotionally impacted (anxious, excited, sad, happy) watching a movie. The events in the movie aren’t really happening but your thoughts about them being real are. That’s what brings about the emotion. The mind is a magnificent thing. Why not put it to good use then? Since the mind can’t distinguish the real from the imaginary why don’t you create the life you want in your mind and let the universe take care of the rest?

Here’s how it goes. For 68 seconds write down how you want your life to be, not how it is. List what kind of career you want, what will your home life be like, what kind of hobbies and events you will find yourself in and what will your average day feel like. You can be as detailed as you like but remember you only have 68 seconds. That’s all it takes to start shifting your mind from what’s happening now to what you want it to be. This is how the Law of Attraction really works. By writing down how you want it to be you become really clear and then the universe can do what it does best, manifest desires. Do this daily if need be. If your day didn’t go the way you would have liked it to go, write down how you would like it to go tomorrow then. You’ve got 68 seconds. Ready, set, go!

Saturday, February 19, 2011

Getting What You’re Giving

Have you ever noticed that the more someone complains about their life situation the more they stay in it and the people who have a cheerful disposition tend to have more of the same? Why is that? More important, what creates the difference? Is it the situation that determines how someone will react or is it the person who decides how to react to the situation? I believe it’s the latter.
Someone who comes from a place of being a victim believes that things happen to them and they have little or no control over what happens to them. They don’t see any connection between how they react and what life experiences come their way. Their viewpoint is that things happen to them and thus remain in a state of “what is.”

On the other hand, the person who looks for the positive aspect of the situation remains emotionally in a much better place and therefore attracts better life experiences. Other people respond in kind and therefore they get what they give.

You may think that isn’t possible but I’m sure you’ve been in a situation where two people experience the same event, one person reacts very irate and upset over it while the other one reacts rather calmly about it, same situation different reaction. What does this tell you? It says that you are the creator of your experiences. You can choose to be happy or choose to be sad. You can choose to be the victim or you can choose to take charge of your life. You have the free will to choose. Isn’t that awesome!

Tuesday, February 15, 2011

Egypt’s Power of Intent

Wow! Did you notice how fast things changed in Egypt once so many people focused on what they wanted? It was pure power of intent. The Law of Attraction manifested right before our eyes. That is the power of “All in One.”
How did it happen and so quickly? There were so many people whose sole intent or focus was getting rid of their leader that the universe had no choice but to make it happen. It’s a universal law. They were clear that they didn’t want this person in power anymore. They were intent on making it happen and they kept focusing on their desired results and that’s what they got. Their leader is no longer in power. They got what they wanted not what they didn’t want, their leader gone.

It will be interesting to see what happens next. What will take its place? This is where things tend to fall apart when governments collapse because there is no clear vision for what they want. Not only does the vision have to be clear, it has to be united and that is usually why the new vision doesn’t take hold. The vision either isn’t clear enough and/or there aren’t enough people who are united in the vision.

I often think that is why some governments fail while others thrive. The people really do have a say even if it’s not part of their constitution. Monarchies, dictatorships and communism don’t last because the people eventually decide they don’t want it anymore. They become united in thought to overthrow the government they no longer want. The government’s that come up with a clear cut vision that is supported by the people is the one that will come out ahead. They all become united as one.

What does Egypt need now? They need a leader who will unite the people with a vision that they can rally behind versus something that is thrust upon them. Good luck Egypt.

Friday, February 11, 2011

You Have All the Resources You Need

I have good news. You can’t have a desire without the resources to fulfill that desire presently. It’s one of the universal laws.

What that means is that you have all the resources you need in this moment in time to achieve your desires otherwise you wouldn’t have the desire. Interesting, huh! It means it’s within your reach and all you have to do is allow it to come into your experience. However, this is where people tend to get stuck. Their mindset is stuck on unworthiness and/or lack. They feel they are not worthy of their desires or that they lack the skill, knowledge etc to achieve them. They falsely believe they don’t have the resources available to them to achieve their goals. Or maybe everything isn’t in perfect order yet so they don’t allow that which is ready to appear. Another false belief is that there is a limit to the amount of joy, happiness or material possessions etc. they can have so they don’t allow that which is ready to come into their experience to manifest itself.

Hey, don’t get down on yourself. We all have had moments like that. In times like that it’s good to catch yourself and get back into a good feeling emotion of what it would feel like when you do fulfill your desire. Remind yourself of all you have to offer and that you wouldn’t have the desire if you didn’t have the ability to achieve it.

Having the desire is the easy part, not believing and trusting in yourself is what keeps you from getting what you want. All the classes, applications, assessments and seminars won’t help you until you allow and accept what you want to come to you without hesitation, questioning and judging.

Tuesday, February 8, 2011

You Have to Know Where You Are Before You Know Where to Go

Where do you want to go, be or do? Well, the first thing you need to do is find out where you’re at. People tent to miss that part. They immediately see something they want and start moving towards it without giving much thought to the direction they need to take. This isn’t a physical direction unless you’re talking about a place but your inner direction. You really need to know who you are first.

If you know you wanted to pick up a specific item at a specialty store at the Mall of America, what is the first thing you’d want to do as you walked into this huge multi level mall with over 520 shops and 50 restaurants? Would you start walking aimlessly around the complex that’s as large as seven Yankee Stadium’s until you found your store, not likely?

This first thing you’d want to do is check the marquee to find out what part of the complex your specialty store is in. What do you do next, start walking? NO. The next step, and this is the part a lot of us make in regards to our own growth, is check to see where you’re at. On the marquee it’s usually in big bold letters that say, YOU ARE HERE.

Now you know where you are in relation to where you want to go. And just like the walk you’ll be making to get to that store, don’t get discouraged because it’s a long walk to get there. Remember to keep thinking about what it’ll be like once you reach your destination (goal) and pick up (achieve) that item (desire) that you’ve wanted to get.

Tuesday, February 1, 2011

Responsibility IS Freedom

That doesn’t seem to go together, does it? Let me explain.

When you take responsibility for what is happening in your life you become the driver instead of the passenger. You begin to live your life by design instead of by default. Sure you make some bad choices now and then but then you take the responsibility for them, make adjustments and move on. When you realize that you are indeed the creator of the experiences you have, you begin to make better choices so that you will have the experiences that you want.

You’ve heard the expressions; “Birds of a feather flock together”, “The better it gets, the better it gets; and the worse it gets the worse it gets” or “This day started out bad and got much worse.” There is more truth to that than you may have given credit. The people you identify with and listen to do have an effect on you. It may not happen right away but eventually it does. Next time you’re in the company of a few individuals having a conversation sit back and just observe the conversation. Listen for when someone starts to complain about something like their last cold. Eventually someone will chime in about their last cold and how awful it was and then maybe another has to top that with something better until the whole conversation is about trying to out-do the others. It really is quite amusing. Of course it doesn’t have to be about a cold it could be about anything; job, errands, injury, traffic or weather, you name it.

Now if you’re really into the Law of Attraction like I am, you’d remove yourself from the above conversation or at least not give much thought to it. Why, because where attention goes energy flows. Even though you may not want to get a cold, just the thought of getting a cold and all the symptoms that go with it could actually bring it to you. You are a magnet attracting whatever you are giving your attention to whether it be the atmosphere at work or in a traffic jam. Even though you don’t want a cold your attention is focused on a cold and so you get one. You have the freedom to choose where your attention goes.

What has that got to do with responsibility you ask. Well, this attraction magnet within you brings you the experiences you have in every aspect of your life. When you hang out with creative people you tend to start thinking like they do. If you’re around people who talk about sports or cars, you will start to learn more about it and talk more about it. Conversely, if you’re around people who swear a lot then you too will slip out a #$%&* once in awhile. When you’re around people who complain a lot you too will add your two cents to the conversation and become a complainer too.

The good news is that you don’t have to buy into anything that you don’t want to. You have the freedom to choose what you will pay attention to and what you will not. You can take responsibility for what you’re experiencing and make corrections if needed. You don’t have to live your life by default. You have the power to choose your outcomes by making better choices and you have the freedom to start today.