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Tuesday, May 11, 2010

How Honey Works Better Than Vinegar

You've heard the saying, "You catch more flies with honey than you do with vinegar." It is so true. Sometimes it takes longer than others but by persistently using your sweet stuff  it will wear the other person down.  It goes along with turning the other cheek. I don't know if it's through your demeanor that you demonstrate how people should act or that the other person starts to feel bad about himself for acting a certain way, all I know is that it works.

It is amazing how much we bring upon our self just by how we project our self to others. We may think our actions and language are okay but others may instead take offense or be turned off by what we do. We attract what we already are or want to be.  It is the Law of Attraction.

For example, you could take the same sentence but emphasize a different word and change the meaning of the sentence. Read the sentence below but change your inflection for the word highlighted.

I don't want to go there.
I don't want to go there.
I don't want to go there.

When you factor in the voice, face and body movements, it can change the meaning of the sentence even more. This is what actors do. They work with the script to create the intended meaning of the piece.  With each of one of these sample sentences you project a different meaning and therefore a different response. 

If you want to catch more flies, you need to be mindful of how you are presenting yourself to others by how you speak, through your body language, and the choice of words you use.

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